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190329 Funeral Sermon for Mary Lou Block, March 29,2019

190329 Funeral Sermon for Mary Lou Block, March 29,2019


A domesticated animal is an animal that is no longer wild.  You can put domesticated animals in a pen or in a fence and they are pretty much going to stay there.  A person is able to control a domesticated animal.  A wild animal is not like that.  It does whatever it wants.  You can’t control it.
We have a tendency to domesticate animals; we also have a tendency to try to domesticate God.  The stuff that gets done in churches can give this impression.  We tend to do the same things over and over again.  Routines make it seem like we are the ones in control.  Like a dairyman milks his cows for his own benefit, so also it can seem as though we in our churches milk God and use him for our own benefit. 
Some people like to drink milk, others don’t—some people have more use for a dairyman than others.  That is similar with how churches are thought about.  Some people like the God talk, others do not.  And so it is not surprising that most folks say, “To each their own.  If that’s the way you want to spend your time, then fine, but I don’t have to if I don’t want to.”
If we were lords and masters, and if God were a cow to be milked, then I suppose there would be nothing wrong with this picture, but that’s not the way that things are.  We have not domesticated God.  We are not in control of him.  God is going to do what he wants whether you like it or not.
This is something that is brought out very forcefully in our readings today.  Something unheard of is going to happen in a very short time.  There will be a resurrection from the dead.  This resurrection will be for a purpose as you heard Jesus say, “Those who have done good will be resurrected to life.  Those who have done evil will be resurrected to judgment.”  It doesn’t matter one bit what you think of this idea, because you are not the one who is in control.  God is in control, and he is going to do it, whether you like it or not.
And so you must get it out of your head that God is someone you can use, however that might be, to suit your own purposes.  It is also good for you to realize that what we are engaged in here today at this funeral and burial are not routine.  Stupendous matters are laid out before us here today.  Mary Lou’s course of life in this world is done.  We are placing her body into ground.  The time is coming,” Jesus says in our Gospel reading, “when all who are in their graves will hear his voice and be resurrected.”  Mary Lou will hear this voice and she will come out of this very casket with her glorified body.
Unbelief and hardness of heart wants to tamp all this down and say, “Oh no, nothing so nearly as exciting (or perhaps frightening) is taking place today.  This is all totally routine.  This is just yet another person who has died.  She’s not the first and she won’t be the last.” 
Those who do not believe want to hold on to their delusion that they are in control and everything is well in hand.  Amazingly, believing this and living this way works pretty good for the time being.  These folks are cool, calm, and collected.  The problem, though, is that it isn’t true.  It’s like playing pretend or make-believe: “Let’s pretend that God won’t resurrect us or judge us and that we can make whatever we want of our own life.”
I can’t make anybody stop doing this kind of thing.  All I can say is that it is just wishful thinking, and will prove itself to be untrue when the time comes.  If you won’t believe my warning, then there’s nothing that can be done for you.  But perhaps I can also alleviate your fears by telling you more about this God who is in control, so that you can know what he is like.  We naturally think that only those things that we are able to control are safe, because if something is outside of our control, then who knows what might happen?  But God has not left us in the dark so that we do not know what he is like and what he desires to do with us.  This is why he has given to us his Word.  It is so that we can know him and believe in him and look to him for help in time of need.
What God in his Word reveals to us about himself is that even though we have done what God has told us not to do, and not done those things that God has told us to do, he still somehow, strangely, incomprehensibly loves us.  God’s commands are good and so those who break them must be punished.  But in order that we might not be punished as we deserve for our sins in this life, as well as in hell in the next, God promised us a Redeemer from our sin.  God makes this promise with the very first sin in the Garden of Eden.  He will send his own eternally begotten Son to redeem us from the punishment we deserve by being punished in our place. 
And that’s just what happened.  In the fullness of time God sent forth his Son, born of the Virgin Mary, to redeem us from our sins by taking them upon himself so that he became sin.  All the wrath of God for all the sinners of the world—including each one of you—was poured out upon Jesus so that even though he is true God with all the strength and vigor that goes along with that he truly died on the cross—crushed for our iniquities. 
And why?  For you.  So that you are no longer a son of the devil or a daughter of the devil, which is what everybody is who remains enslaved to sin, but so that you may know the truth and the truth may set you free, and that by faith you lay hold of the inheritance you have in Jesus Christ of being a child of God. 
Jesus says in our Gospel reading today: “Truly, truly (he’s being emphatic here); truly, truly I say to you, whoever hears my Word and believes him who sent me has eternal life.  He does not come into judgment but has passed from death to life.”  Jesus says that in your hearing of this Word of truth that comes from him you will not be judged for all the awful, disgusting things that you have done.  Jesus was judged and condemned in your place.  Therefore, instead, you have already passed from death to life. 
God reveals to us what his intentions are towards us in his Word.  There isn’t a single one of you who can’t turn to this God for mercy and the full and complete forgiveness of your sins.  This is what Jesus tells you to do in what was read to you!  Through faith in this Word that rings in your ears at this very moment you are swept up into God’s great acts of salvation that continue to this very day, this very moment.  For it has pleased God to save people through faith.  He is the one who has ordered the circumstances so that you could hear of Christ today.  You are forgiven by this Word that comes from him.
And this is also how we must understand Mary Lou’s life if we wish to get to the very essence of it.  The very essence of it is that she is the recipient of God’s great saving actions.  She also shared in God’s goodness and providence that extends to both believers and unbelievers because God is very generous.  She was blessed with her husband and her children and her grandchildren.  She was blessed with diligence and industriousness—a fact I can testify to since I worked with her closely as the secretary of this congregation.  She had friends and good experiences and lived a rich life particularly because she was content, even though she was not stuffed to the gills with money.  These gifts from God—and there are many others—are great and precious, but they are not essential to who she was.
For that we recall the way that God has dealt with her for her salvation.  From before the foundation of the world he chose her for salvation as a sheer gift of grace.  And he brought it about that she was justified together with all other people by Christ’s life, death, and resurrection.  In order that she could make use of this grace he sent the Holy Spirit in the Word and the Sacraments and these were liberally applied in Mary Lou’s life. 
Jesus, through the hand of her baptizer, baptized Mary Lou.  Jesus shepherded her along all these years.  By the power of the Holy Spirit he brought her to repentance, forgave her sins, and admonished and encouraged her in the new life of love.  It was by his grace that she stood, and it was he that lifted her up when she stumbled and fell, restoring her to faith.
And now he has seen fit to bring this chapter of her life to a close.  This was a bit unexpected, to be sure, but we are not the ones in control.  That’s alright.  God is in control.  And it is necessary for this life of sin and death to be put to an end so that we can be brought into that life with God where our true life is. 
She has lost nothing.  It is we who have lost something by her being taken away from us.  But if you believe in Jesus and the forgiveness and life he has worked for you, then you also will lose nothing by death and you will see her again when you both worship our God and Savior together with the rest of the multitude of heaven. 
May God be as merciful to us and he has been and continues to be with Mary Lou.

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